Your Character and Birth Order
I want to make my fictional characters well rounded individuals and not one dimensional. I want them to seem real. And the Internet is a great source for character building information.
Lynn Viehl provides helpful information in her article, Ten Things to Help with Developing Characterizations. She suggests you discover your character's horoscope, favorite colors, books he or she reads and (my favorite) what they purchase and make them a part of your character. When you discover this information, your character becomes a person.
But I have one more to add to the list in character discovery and that is birth order. Where does your character fall in birth order? Is your character firstborn and bossy (or is that just me)? Is she too serious? Is your character a middle child longing for attention? Or is he or she the clown of the family? Your character’s birth order may cause him to react with anger to being criticized. Your character may let others walk all over her because of her place in the birth order line.
I had some things to learn about my main character. She is an only child of an only child. Does that influence her to be self-centered? Does she long for companionship? Does she suffer from loneliness? Is she a persistent personality? And what happens between my main character and her mother if they were both only children. Is there conflict? My MC was bland until I considered her place (or birth order) in her family. Now she is much more interesting as I make her act and react to her birth order tendencies.
You can agree with birth order research or not, but it may help you to understand your character a little more.
Three online sources for birth order information are:
The Effects of Birth Order on Personality
Child Development Institute - Birth Order
Birth Order: Your key to Compatibility
Where do you fall in the birth order chain? Or if you're working on a character, where does he or she fall in that order?
Sources: Paperback Writer, Lynn Viehl, Wikipedia
Comments
And I do agree with you - know your character so you can make us totally relate and get immersed in the book.
I'm an only child, so I'm always struggling with the birth order issue when I write about families. My best friend growing up was the eldest of six, so I use their dynamic a lot.
Teresa
CD
My MC is an only child, and it played a large role in who she became. It's not so apparent in the book, not spelled out that way, but it's there.
Awww paper dolls.. I loved them when I was a kid..now that just brings back so lovely memories!!
And yes I agree.. birth order has a lot to do with personality. I've experienced it in my own family.
Thanks for sharing those links! :)
~B xx
Interesting topic...my oldest boy Sprout is turning into a leader already at age 4. My baby, Cubbie, at 2 is our silly little goofball, and follows his brother everywhere. So I guess when it comes to my kids, I see some of the birth order theories coming true.
BTW, it's ME!
I had a doll which I think my grandmother won - too late in the day .. I was 12 or something .. but she was wonderful and had the full dress set - someone had spent a lot of time fulfilling the doll's life for all eventualities .. I hope she went to a good home -
I'm the first born .. decision maker - get on with life .. or that's the theory!
Thanks .. bye .. Hilary
Great idea for sharpening up characters. :-)
- Corra
The Victorian Heroine