Monday Ramblings
Therapy
Last week, my kiddo started therapy, the first three therapies, to help him with the damage the stroke did. He handled them well, but the first two days were rough on him. First day was four hours. The second day was three hours. The third day he went in the morning and he did better partly because it was a morning appointment, partly because he’d been there twice before.
Keep in mind that Millie doesn’t like:
Last week, my kiddo started therapy, the first three therapies, to help him with the damage the stroke did. He handled them well, but the first two days were rough on him. First day was four hours. The second day was three hours. The third day he went in the morning and he did better partly because it was a morning appointment, partly because he’d been there twice before.
I want him to be
well, now. I think he feels that way, too. We are not patient people, but I
know it takes time.
I am reminded of the Bible verse, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
Millie and the Outing Keep in mind that Millie doesn’t like:
-
Her collar (puts her in a
wide-eyed coma)
- Grass (it's for the cows, in her opinion)
- Outside world (too big)
- Vacuum cleaners (has
nothing to do with this story)
Outside, I sit in
my camp chair, and Millie sits on my lap. She snuggles close, but does not go
into her Chihuahua shivers. On the ground (now don’t laugh), I have placed a
carpet remnant rug for her. Millie relaxes on my lap and watches the cars in
the distance go by and birds squawking overhead. Fifteen minutes later, I look
upward to the sky to see if there are any eagles or daytime owls that might
swoop down (to do you know what) and place Millie on the rug. When I see that I’m
losing her to collar-coma, I walk away and say things like, “You’re a good
girl, Millie,” and “Come here, Millie.”
Millie ignores me
and lies down on the rug and sucks water off the clover and eats at least one
tip of a grass blade. I sigh and decide to take off her collar hoping to cut off
its magic power of paralysis. She likes the freedom and sits up. Somehow I coax her off
the rug. She runs to me acting like she’s going to be one of those leap in your
arms dogs, but I move away. She sits, I coax, and on it goes.
After a few
minutes, I go back to my chair to sit, and she’s interested in following me. I
call her and she begins her run through the wet grass again. Then something
happens. Millie realizes her large furry paws (that don’t match her tiny body)
are sopping wet and she collapses to the ground. When her body touches the wet
grass, she jumps up and tries running on three legs, because the fourth leg is nonfunctioning
due to soak-itis. She falls again, because she’s not an accomplished three-legged-dog
and hobbles the rest of the way to the rug. Thank goodness the rug was there. Right?
My
camera was inside the house.
Comments
Now Millie - frustration - yes well that's allowed! Just don't stamp too hard ... poor soul - I hope she can become acclimatised before it starts getting cold ...
Lovely post and all the best to one and all - your son and his family in particular ... cheers Hilary
Don't forget the camera next time. I'm sure it was both sad and funny to watch Millie.
I hope your son continues to improve with therapy...I know he will work hard!
Lmao sure Millie isn't part cat? Hating collars and wet grass.
Millie is wonderful! I think you were kind to give her the carpet fragment. :) And to look out for birds of prey...
Wishing your son well. I'm sending him lots of 'never, ever give up' vibes.
Millie has her issues, but she seems to want to adapt. There are going to be many more stories you'll have to share.
Your dog and its reactions to life is so funny!
Wanting everything to be back to normal is something every stroke survivor (and his family) wants. It's a slow and occasionally frustrating process, and it will try your patience. The Serenity Prayer becomes a key part of your life at this point, because there will be things you can't change, but many more things that you can. Don't give up hope! My prayers and thoughts are with both of you.